tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post2118309251059230095..comments2023-11-16T00:42:52.366-08:00Comments on Soulmates In Hell: STUCK!....5 THINGS THAT KEEP THE VICTIM FROM MOVING ON....Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12078046044712522712noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-88265608616776374712016-04-10T11:38:08.841-07:002016-04-10T11:38:08.841-07:00FUTURE FAKING.. that got me stuck for a long time,...FUTURE FAKING.. that got me stuck for a long time, until i had to realise the it will never happen. And whet if it did happen? More abuse, more control. Once I realised that I could leave him and not miss him, not miss the future together. He future faked a lot. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-71155968234819756452015-12-03T20:04:26.450-08:002015-12-03T20:04:26.450-08:0023 years total and 14 yrs married. I call him a bl...23 years total and 14 yrs married. I call him a black hole. I'm finally finished. When I think of how CALLOUS he is and how naive I was to fall for every moment he seemed to be honest in his gestures or in what he would say...I become so sad then angry. THEN I feel stuck. I always gave him the benefit of the doubt but no more. Word of advice, whatever you feel try very hard to keep it to yourself. The N will collect EVERYTHING you say and use it against. As well as EVERYTHING you do if you lose control of yourself. 23 years 3 kids, and No dreams have come true. I will not live with a black hole for another year.Adihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15067590001003131581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-84077701917543965202015-12-03T20:02:38.341-08:002015-12-03T20:02:38.341-08:0023 years total and 14 yrs married. I call him a bl...23 years total and 14 yrs married. I call him a black hole. I'm finally finished. When I think of how CALLOUS he is and how naive I was to fall for every moment he seemed to be honest in his gestures or in what he would say...I become so sad then angry. THEN I feel stuck. I always gave him the benefit of the doubt but no more. Word of advice, whatever you feel try very hard to keep it to yourself. The N will collect EVERYTHING you say and use it against. As well as EVERYTHING you do if you lose control of yourself. 23 years 3 kids, and No dreams have come true. I will not live with a black hole for another year.Adihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15067590001003131581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-10043483855947895702015-11-06T17:40:48.167-08:002015-11-06T17:40:48.167-08:00I am and will continue to move on. During our rela...I am and will continue to move on. During our relationship 'post-mortem', I tried to get closure, an apology, etc. It was no use. I spent 11 years hoping my husband would empathise with me. But he only understands and lives for his own happiness. <br /><br />I'm glad he cheated on me. Like the author, I'm rid of him. The other woman, has fallen for his sob story. We have two young children, so I find it hard to feel sorry for her. She clearly has her issues.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12957384843390380571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-87721287870956917962015-10-18T07:39:53.288-07:002015-10-18T07:39:53.288-07:00Well, I can check them all off and that is sad but...Well, I can check them all off and that is sad but true. I have tried so hard for 20 months to wrap my head around this mess, but just can't do it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13445887316097539768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-24866380236373268222015-10-03T16:01:49.422-07:002015-10-03T16:01:49.422-07:00I have come to the realization that he isn't s...I have come to the realization that he isn't sorry. Je doesn't know why. Doesn't care that he hurt me and he is evil. He'll never admit he did something wrong because his narc mother told him always take it to the grave. <br />I'm healing in spite of his cruel treatment. He stealing. His manipulation. His lies. He took nearly four years but he's not getting any more. Thanks for your post. I deserve better. He's homeless. Jobless. Has major health issues. And now he's without me. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12424241106326190806noreply@blogger.com