tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post4514121975623774455..comments2023-11-16T00:42:52.366-08:00Comments on Soulmates In Hell: THE NARCOPATH AS HE (OR SHE) REALLY IS...10 THINGS TO LOOK FORAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12078046044712522712noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-23228081254932333262018-07-25T00:40:50.765-07:002018-07-25T00:40:50.765-07:00Oh Dear Lord i hope you made it Sarah. I stumbled ...Oh Dear Lord i hope you made it Sarah. I stumbled on your post tonight researhing narcopaths with one other ability coined The Dark Triad! 😲<br />The super weird thing, i kid you not the signs are so obvious.. i work one day with her and 2 others..one is young and good but she may turn if she keeps playing their game...the other is 2-faced & manipulative,.they appear to be lovely people but a day alone with them leaves me completely drained i can barely make it home and straight to bed in my uniform, unfed, unwashed, sleep for hours and wake confused 🙁<br />Its caused quite a disturbance at work having found a triad I'll have to resign thats just too sickening what the hell?!<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00714267501323459611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-59738025988916280902017-03-07T14:04:42.262-08:002017-03-07T14:04:42.262-08:00Oh my gosh! This describes my late father to a T!...Oh my gosh! This describes my late father to a T!! My poor mother went through a hell of her own. As well as both my brother and I. Wish I knew then what I know now!! Horrible upbringing to say the least! He was always in control and mean about most things! Couldn't wait to be away from him! But felt an obligation especially for my mother to always visit and be there as best I could, there was no standing up to him as he'd just scream and put you in your place or tell you to get out! Made it difficult to love him as a parent! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01270502235975278109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-88138617863255591732016-03-06T17:26:06.413-08:002016-03-06T17:26:06.413-08:00Find some of the love you had for him, nurture it ...Find some of the love you had for him, nurture it and protect it. watch it grow it will become the love you need for yourself. When you find love again remember to always save some for yourself, and if possible block his phone number honey. He's still feeding on your misery<br />whatsthismeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02365483698828779879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-73391144357554246292016-03-06T17:04:40.513-08:002016-03-06T17:04:40.513-08:00I have just found within the last 24hrs A support ...I have just found within the last 24hrs A support group on Facebook and videos on you tube... my last 2 relationships we're with complete narcsssist, you would think you would learn the first time and watch for it but I never saw it coming the 2nd time...and it was actually with someone I grew up with and had known all my life how could I not have seen, there were a couple weird things but I guess I brushed them aside having known this man my entire life... He had been at my house one day and was his sweet normal self and 2 days later dumped me over the phone, he was very cruel and cold... I was completely stunned as I had never seen this side before... I had thought he lied a couple times but ignored it I guess all people tell little lies sometimes right? But all people are not phychotic narcissist, after he dumped me he never went back to the man I thought he was, I'm guessing there didn't need to be the cover up anymore since he had let me see the real him... he still text me every morning at 6:35 to say good morning and have a good day... cannot wrap my head around why he continues to do this, I wish someone could tell me as of now I'm still drowning in the after math of his destruction I feel as if I'm losing my mind at times I don't know if I'm going to make it through this time I am so lost and confused as to how this all happened... I shared so much with this person and he held me while I cried over things I had been through, the day he dumped me I asked how he could do this to me after everything I had been through and he said whatever I've been through had nothing to do with him and it wasn't his problem... don't know how to move on where to turn or who to talk to, as he was my best friend... I just am so lost, and I don't understand any of it, especially why he dumped me but still text and still gets mad and goes silent and will do the disappearing act and you don't know when or if you'll hear from him or see him again if anyone can help clarify I would appreciate it... Thanksdeb7129https://www.blogger.com/profile/16832315070783550403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-1330823254808416392016-03-06T10:48:52.667-08:002016-03-06T10:48:52.667-08:00I relate to all of this.I relate to all of this.Tristanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18278121086394254768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-14390785932073446912016-03-05T17:44:24.817-08:002016-03-05T17:44:24.817-08:00Spot on she was all this and moreSpot on she was all this and moreKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04306601790170151245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-14737667934912924482016-02-19T09:39:50.392-08:002016-02-19T09:39:50.392-08:00Please add "Silent treatment", "Dis...Please add "Silent treatment", "Disappearing Acts" and "Triangulation/Ostracizeing" these are used often with a narcopath. This blog is spot on and I feel embarrassed for allowing myself to stay in such a destructive relationship..I am educating myself everday but there is a part of me that I don't know if I will ever completly heal. I am seeking a therapist that has experience with narcissistic abuse syndrome. I wish there was a support group for this type of abuse because to be with other survivors that understand what it does to you would help each other and their recovery...we wouldn't feel so alone.Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13884892858764083820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-53826238811749414832016-02-19T09:39:37.773-08:002016-02-19T09:39:37.773-08:00I just found the second part of your post that men...I just found the second part of your post that mentions the other things above. Sorry about thatCrystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13884892858764083820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-39788191250648013502016-02-19T09:38:49.920-08:002016-02-19T09:38:49.920-08:00I just found the second part of your post that men...I just found the second part of your post that mentions the other things above. Sorry about thatCrystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13884892858764083820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-49669367464155168972016-02-19T09:34:29.952-08:002016-02-19T09:34:29.952-08:00Please add "Silent treatment", "Dis...Please add "Silent treatment", "Disappearing Acts" and "Triangulation/Ostracizeing" these are used often with a narcopath. This blog is spot on and I feel embarrassed for allowing myself to stay in such a destructive relationship..I am educating myself everday but there is a part of me that I don't know if I will ever completly heal. I am seeking a therapist that has experience with narcissistic abuse syndrome. I wish there was a support group for this type of abuse because to be with other survivors that understand what it does to you would help each other and their recovery...we wouldn't feel so alone.Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13884892858764083820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-69388685881004797442016-02-08T20:10:50.876-08:002016-02-08T20:10:50.876-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.goodbye narcopathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03336437343669824754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-66725371292911942042016-01-23T04:54:10.519-08:002016-01-23T04:54:10.519-08:00This explains my narcopath to the T. For so many y...This explains my narcopath to the T. For so many years i did not know what was wrong with him. I would fight back because i was sure that I could make him see my point (feelings ). Now I know that I will never get results as you would a real person. Dcf is threatening to take our children because the last call to the police was one of 20 something. I have to escape. Please God help me break the chains from this lunetic. Sarahs Photographyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16541080792426839890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-645808895514651354.post-20914573348638399402015-10-21T12:01:24.366-07:002015-10-21T12:01:24.366-07:00Great blog post. Very informative, especially when...Great blog post. Very informative, especially when learning about an abusive narcissist.Katiehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06687529537894471928noreply@blogger.com